Sunday, December 20, 1981

International Dinner (12/17/1981)

Thursday, December 17, 1981
At about 16:00 this afternoon, Herr Kirby invited me to join his advanced English class for dinner. The father of one of the CP Station kids whom I treat was also invited on the suggestion of one of the students. This father, Hassan, was here from Iran to see that his son, Ali, was placed where he would receive the best treatment. I wondered about “socializing” with a parent, but decided to go. Hassan and I waited in the hospital lobby until we were picked up by Jan and Kirby at 18:15. We drove up to Evilard, which takes a lot longer than going straight up by funicular! We had a clear view of the stars and lights in Biel.
Dinner was at the condominium of Claire, the social service secretary who is married to a shy athlete engineer (who worked for Von Roll, the company that erected the Roosevelt Tramway in New York City). They have five children. Their terrace apartment was the top of three stepped along the hillside with great views of Biel. They now have an American Field Service (AFS) exchange student living with them. Claire slipped in and out of German, but appeared the most practiced in English.
We were joined by the chief surgeon’s secretary, Rosemarie, who spoke the most, and seemed to have a very sophisticated vocabulary, Barbara the receptionist, who had been in the U.S., and although she didn’t speak much, she spoke rather naturally. Hassan’s English was poor, but he was game.
We started with orange juice and nuts, then sat down for the “light” meal, which turned out to be very formal! The table centerpiece was of evergreens and walnuts with candles stuck in tangerines. We had what I think is Zürcher Geschnetzeltes/veal in a mushroom cream sauce, with rice, and steamed cauliflower and carrots.
Hassan spoke rather candidly about his country, and according to him, Khomeini came into power because the Shah was so easily let out (thanks to the U.S. allowing him to enter our country for surgery, so in a roundabout way, the U.S put Khomeini in power?). Khomeini is no good for the country because he isn’t concerned for Iran, but for Islamism. He doesn’t care about selling oil or money, thus everyone is poor. Khomeini is battling capitalism in Iraq, wanting them to join his Moslem Empire.
Hassan is a construction contractor (buildings and roads), but there is no work because of the state of confusion. Apparently everything has been nationalized (or Islamisized) and so the population of Tehran has grown from 3 to 7 million because Khomeini opened the doors to all residences. No private property. According to Hassan, Communism is good, but Khomeini is using Islam to transform Communism into something not good.
Claire had Kirby help translate a letter she received from the AFS student’s mother, who seemed to be from a different class of people, since she liked dogs and tennis, and had a Tennessee Walking Horse and was not brought up to have a career like Claire has. This mother has put up pictures of Claire and her family in her home so she can feel close to them; Jan jokingly had us picturing this mother speaking to Claire’s picture.
We also learned of Kirby’s heritage; his father is first generation Arabic and one grandparent is Orthodox Catholic from Lebanon, the other a Moslem from Syria.
We had a ceremony to change from the German formal to informal language by saying, “Wir machen duzen,” give your first name, and take a sip of wine with your arms linked, then greet each other with a kiss on each cheek.
Kirby had to leave at 21:30, so I was dropped off at the Personalhaus/staff residence, where they picked up friend Christian, and took Hassan to his hotel.

Saturday, December 19, 1981
Went downtown shopping and the stores were jam-packed. Got shoved around quite a bit, which is very unusual. In the grocery store, you bring your own bags, and if you need a bag, you pay for one. In department stores, they will give you a bag if you want one. Now at Christmas time, the department stores will wrap your purchases in gift wrap. The wrapping or stickers will identify where the item was purchased. The boxed candies have a more Christmas-y wrapping at this time of year. I bought some Zimtsterne/Cinnamon star cookies that appear to be very popular.
Out on the sidewalks there are Salvation Army volunteers with their buckets collecting donations. At one bucket was a group of singers, and at another was a brass band. The Armée du Salut/Heilsarmee/Salvation Army folks all wore the familiar uniform and their hats had the Salvation Army emblem.

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